As with everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. You can get douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Believe it or not, bottoms can be aggressive too. Listen to his reactions too. Instead, try to spend a little time spooning with your man. Read them all in order to fully absorb their deeper meaning.
If we had health policies and services that better reflected the needs of the whole population, it might not be like that.
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You can get tested at any sexual health clinic. To a fault, most bottoms and tops will tell you that spending time together after releasing is important. Carry condoms and lube. If you have erection problems, concentrate on something else like kissing for a while. Related content How to put on a condom It's easy. Sex without condoms is the most likely way for gay men to become infected with HIV. Trust your instinct about where and what isn't safe.
Ask him how he likes it. Relax — you're both there to enjoy yourselves. Look Overseas on Instagram. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. Remember, the both of you have just expended a great deal of energy. You may be wondering what that term … mindfulness …means? Most tops could use a lesson on how to top better, and most self-identified bottoms will at some point be at the altar of his ass, ready to worship but unsure of what to do.